The famous Stella
Damascus has come out to public address her relationship with Daniel Ademinokan.
She claims she did not steal or
snatch him from anyone and this is contrary to the people’s view as they’ve
been calling her names like “Husband Snatcher”
Read
interview with Golden Icons Tv here………….
"Let me put it this way. Let me help
you hit the nail on the head. One of the comments I have seen consistently,
over and over again, is ‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’, ‘Stella the
husband snatcher’, which is what has been going on. And I had sworn that I
would never talk about it, or even listen or stress myself about this thing but
I have decided to do this now, so that I end this once and for all.
First of all, let me paint a picture for
you and you let me know what makes sense to you. When I looked up the word
snatch or steal,let’s go to the dictionary. It means, forcefully taking
something away from its original position. Forcefully. From its original
position to another position. Something that does not belong to you. That’s
what I gathered from the word snatch or steal.
So I looked at me, Stella, and I wondered
to myself, how is it possible to go to somebody’s home, and take a man, and
take his son, away from his home and say follow me. You are a man, and
according to their story, he is happily married inside his home. With his
family complete and I walk into that home, to forcefully take a man, able
bodied man, and a kid, away from somebody’s hand and you are there looking at
me. How does that work?
Did they accuse me of using voodoo? Yes or
no? They said no. Okay, did I put a gun on anybody’s head and remove somebody
from somewhere? They said no. So logically, if people actually sit down and
think about it intelligently, how do you snatch somebody from somebody and the
person is there looking at you?
So when you
see a man who has settled ties with a woman and decides to move on with his
life and you feel that there is something in this man that you like and he
likes you. I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I am not about to start hiding
myself. I was waiting for somebody to actually ask me this question, because
all I have heard for the past two, three years are rumors. They said, blogs
said, this said. Nobody has been bold enough to confront me and ask me. So I
say, if I steal something from somebody, and the person is really the owner of
the thing, you come and ask me, ‘you took something from me, give me back’
But nobody was able to that. And I am like,
if I meet an able bodied man that has left and moved on. That is not even in
the same house with whoever and is not doing anything with whoever, and both
parties have decided this thing is not going anywhere, and they have gone their
separate ways, why is it that it easier for the world to blame the woman that
the man has decided to end up with?
Why is it that it is always that woman that
scattered that home? The two people that did things that nobody was there,
nobody said something must have happened between this two people but it is
always somebody else that is the problem. And I always say, I do not tolerate
blaming anybody for your own problems. I have had problems.
After my
late husband’s death, I got married again and the marriage didn’t work. After
eight (8) months, it crashed. People didn’t hear much about it, why? We were
both mature to understand that we came together, we knew that the thing was not
working, instead of us to become enemies we will remain friends, let’s just let
it go quietly. And we let it go quietly. I didn’t blame anybody else for doing
it, he didn’t blame anybody else for doing it. So I am wondering, two people
come together they go their separate ways, this one meets somebody, all of a
sudden, it is that somebody that is the problem. Did anybody ever ask, what
went wrong? Why would a man pick up his son and walk away from his marriage?
Was there anytime another woman was the
problem until the man moved on with another woman? Nobody brought up Stella’s
name, then all of a sudden, ‘oh he’s moved on with somebody else (snaps
fingers), it must be her’. How? I am still waiting for somebody to come with
proof to say ‘oh when they were still in marriage, when they were still in a
house, you came and did this.’ So the reason why I don’t like talking about it
is that, there are some things I would say to you and you would look at me like
‘oh wow’ but I don’t want to be derogatory, I don’t want to tow the line that
other people have towed by talking bad about people.
I would
never do that but the stories started coming. At first I ignored it, I just
kept quiet, and then it was all over the place, Google, blogs, and I am like,
one day, one day, I would tell my story. There’s a reason why I am respecting
certain people, respecting certain legal issues that are going on. So there
might be some things I may not hammer on, but whenever you hear this person snatched
this person’s, you will ask the person, the person that they said was the
original owner, what was the person doing when they were snatching the person
from him or her? I don’t get it. Do you understand?
So I look at
it, I am not ugly, I am not dumb. Of all the men in the world, I will now go
and look for somebody else’s own and say this is the one I want. If he didn’t
come out of it and say I want to be with you and you want to be with me, how?
Why would I come and grab? Am I that bad looking? Am I that old?